So I was musing at a traffic light on this morning on my way to work, wondering what sort of inspirational thing I could post in the blog today that would get everybody thinking and writing? And of course the fact that the holidays are coming screaming at us like a runaway freight train is difficult to ignore...so I pose the question to you all, what is the most meaningful part of the holidays to you? Whatever you celebrate, Christmas, Hanukkah, Kwanzaa, Grinch Day...what makes the season for you? What puts the ring in your silver bells?
I grew up in the frozen flatlands of Minnesota, so of course there was snow. I honestly cannot picture anything but a white Christmas. I love all the lights--there were two houses across the street from each other that had light wars, every time you drove past there were MORE and MORE lights on both houses. I love decorating for the holidays. (Ask my husband. :P) As I've gotten older, the joy has come from the giving, not the receiving. I find myself more looking forward to seeing others faces when they open their packages than to finding out what's in mine. We celebrate Christmas with just my parents and the three of us--and the animals--but they are the people who are the most dear to me in the world. On Christmas Eve we watch A Christmas Story--and quote it throughout the holidays--and then The Grinch, and then eat dinner, and then it's time for presents. And in the morning we see what Santa has delivered--yes, at eleven my son still believes in Santa (or if he doesn't he's being very wise and hedging his bets)--and then head to my parents for breakfast and more presents.
But the thing, the ONE thing, that makes the holidays for me is music. I am a musical being. And nothing moves me more than vocal music. Which is why I love carols so much. I live for the Friday after Thanksgiving when I can load up my CD player with The Blenders, Rockapella, the Carpenters and just sing, sing, sing. (While I put up the decorations. :D) Everywhere I go I have Christmas music--which reminds me I need to get some in my computer at work.
So how about it, y'all? What puts the holly in your ivy? (The toe in your missile? :S) And if you HATE Christmas, what is your favorite holiday and why?
I grew up in the frozen flatlands of Minnesota, so of course there was snow. I honestly cannot picture anything but a white Christmas. I love all the lights--there were two houses across the street from each other that had light wars, every time you drove past there were MORE and MORE lights on both houses. I love decorating for the holidays. (Ask my husband. :P) As I've gotten older, the joy has come from the giving, not the receiving. I find myself more looking forward to seeing others faces when they open their packages than to finding out what's in mine. We celebrate Christmas with just my parents and the three of us--and the animals--but they are the people who are the most dear to me in the world. On Christmas Eve we watch A Christmas Story--and quote it throughout the holidays--and then The Grinch, and then eat dinner, and then it's time for presents. And in the morning we see what Santa has delivered--yes, at eleven my son still believes in Santa (or if he doesn't he's being very wise and hedging his bets)--and then head to my parents for breakfast and more presents.
But the thing, the ONE thing, that makes the holidays for me is music. I am a musical being. And nothing moves me more than vocal music. Which is why I love carols so much. I live for the Friday after Thanksgiving when I can load up my CD player with The Blenders, Rockapella, the Carpenters and just sing, sing, sing. (While I put up the decorations. :D) Everywhere I go I have Christmas music--which reminds me I need to get some in my computer at work.
So how about it, y'all? What puts the holly in your ivy? (The toe in your missile? :S) And if you HATE Christmas, what is your favorite holiday and why?
- Mood:
contemplative - Music:The voices in my head

Comments
Oh and I like White Christmas..
Growing up, I know that my parents always did the most they could to give us a memorable holiday. We never had much extra money, but the emphasis was never on the material giving. As we grew older, I know that they realized we then had stories of other people's holidays to compare ours with, and the thought of not measuring up weighed heavily on them. (Funny how these things occur to you in your adult life...) Still, the holidays remained a special time for our family.
Then during the time of young-adult complacency, I unfortunately bore witness to a tragedy which happened to a dear friend of mine; a member of her family committed suicide not two weeks before christmas. The kind of event that changes lives forever, and filled me with conflicting feelings about the holidays. To this day, I can't imagine what it was/is like for the family.
And now, since becoming a parent, this will be the second Christmas that I get to see through a child's eyes again, and it has renewed some of my excitement about the holidays. I only hope I can make it a good, special, magical holiday for her, that will keep her memories joyful, and focused on family, love, and happiness.
(And a few holiday cookies can't hurt, either.)
Ang you will have a wonderful Xmas with the wee one....it's magical when the kids are young....nowadays mine will probably spend most of it on World of Warcraft with his friends or watching DVD's..LOL!....still at least it gives Jim's back a rest....No more lego sets to sit for hours constructing!...
I adore doing the food and Xmas morning with the pressies and the smells of cooking is definitely my favourite time....and if I do say it myself I do a mean Turkey Dinner...lol!
I'm sure I'll get more into the spirit when the decs are up though....
Deeds xx
What I miss most is that there are no surprises left. My mom is too old to buy or send gifts, so I do that for her, including buying and wrapping my own present so she can still feel like she is participating. I have no kids to live vicariously through, and except for a few Christmas specials (which I get to watch alone), and the dinner which I had to fight to get to prepare and host, there is not much joy in the holiday traditions for me. This is one reason I like to donate blood and clean out my closets for Goodwill during December, so I can feel a part of something that helps somebody else in some small way.
I like the music and the warmth I see. Even though I don't get to share in it. Not everyone lives in a Christmas card, you know. ;-)
Deeds xx