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Thank all that is sacred, it's FRIDAY.

Tater party!
So I was musing at a traffic light on this morning on my way to work, wondering what sort of inspirational thing I could post in the blog today that would get everybody thinking and writing? And of course the fact that the holidays are coming screaming at us like a runaway freight train is difficult to ignore...so I pose the question to you all, what is the most meaningful part of the holidays to you? Whatever you celebrate, Christmas, Hanukkah, Kwanzaa, Grinch Day...what makes the season for you? What puts the ring in your silver bells?

I grew up in the frozen flatlands of Minnesota, so of course there was snow. I honestly cannot picture anything but a white Christmas. I love all the lights--there were two houses across the street from each other that had light wars, every time you drove past there were MORE and MORE lights on both houses. I love decorating for the holidays. (Ask my husband. :P) As I've gotten older, the joy has come from the giving, not the receiving. I find myself more looking forward to seeing others faces when they open their packages than to finding out what's in mine. We celebrate Christmas with just my parents and the three of us--and the animals--but they are the people who are the most dear to me in the world. On Christmas Eve we watch A Christmas Story--and quote it throughout the holidays--and then The Grinch, and then eat dinner, and then it's time for presents. And in the morning we see what Santa has delivered--yes, at eleven my son still believes in Santa (or if he doesn't he's being very wise and hedging his bets)--and then head to my parents for breakfast and more presents.

But the thing, the ONE thing, that makes the holidays for me is music. I am a musical being. And nothing moves me more than vocal music. Which is why I love carols so much. I live for the Friday after Thanksgiving when I can load up my CD player with The Blenders, Rockapella, the Carpenters and just sing, sing, sing. (While I put up the decorations. :D) Everywhere I go I have Christmas music--which reminds me I need to get some in my computer at work.

So how about it, y'all? What puts the holly in your ivy? (The toe in your missile? :S) And if you HATE Christmas, what is your favorite holiday and why?

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[info]astropoet wrote:
Dec. 2nd, 2005 05:09 pm (UTC)
I'm not a great Christmas fan, but the best bits about it are, when it's over, giving presents and the Christmas tree. I love my Christmas tree and taking it down is always a bind...

Oh and I like White Christmas..
[info]ink_9 wrote:
Dec. 2nd, 2005 05:34 pm (UTC)
As I began thinking about this, I've realized that the Holidays always hold a mixed bag of sentiments for me. I, too, love the giving. Particularly when I can do something completely random and unexpected.
Growing up, I know that my parents always did the most they could to give us a memorable holiday. We never had much extra money, but the emphasis was never on the material giving. As we grew older, I know that they realized we then had stories of other people's holidays to compare ours with, and the thought of not measuring up weighed heavily on them. (Funny how these things occur to you in your adult life...) Still, the holidays remained a special time for our family.
Then during the time of young-adult complacency, I unfortunately bore witness to a tragedy which happened to a dear friend of mine; a member of her family committed suicide not two weeks before christmas. The kind of event that changes lives forever, and filled me with conflicting feelings about the holidays. To this day, I can't imagine what it was/is like for the family.
And now, since becoming a parent, this will be the second Christmas that I get to see through a child's eyes again, and it has renewed some of my excitement about the holidays. I only hope I can make it a good, special, magical holiday for her, that will keep her memories joyful, and focused on family, love, and happiness.
(And a few holiday cookies can't hurt, either.)
[info]discodiva76 wrote:
Dec. 2nd, 2005 06:28 pm (UTC)
To be honest I find Christmas very hard now.....yes I love being with Jim and Jon and this year we have his mum down with us. But Christmas with my parents was a magical time for me...They loved it and always had fantastic decorations and we did all the traditional things - from when I was tiny to right up to the last one I had with my Dad.....I find I think more about them at this holiday time than I do the rest of the year and miss my Dad so terribly....I also seem to get colds and flu viruses regularly now....last year was a doozy - sinus infection for over 10 days...still on the law of averages this year should be germ free for me...it seems to go 2 years down 1 year up and the up year is looming! lol...

Ang you will have a wonderful Xmas with the wee one....it's magical when the kids are young....nowadays mine will probably spend most of it on World of Warcraft with his friends or watching DVD's..LOL!....still at least it gives Jim's back a rest....No more lego sets to sit for hours constructing!...

I adore doing the food and Xmas morning with the pressies and the smells of cooking is definitely my favourite time....and if I do say it myself I do a mean Turkey Dinner...lol!

I'm sure I'll get more into the spirit when the decs are up though....

Deeds xx
[info]jillybiehn wrote:
Dec. 2nd, 2005 07:22 pm (UTC)
(((Deeds))) It is wonderful to have memories like that, especially now that your folks are gone, and with those memories you can build magical Christmases for your Jim and Jon, and eventually for your grandkids. :)
[info]seshat_6 wrote:
Dec. 2nd, 2005 07:57 pm (UTC)
Christmas is always very hard for me. My dad had one of his many heart attacks on a Christmas Eve, and we spent many other holidays in the hospital with him as well. My sis Judy died at a Thanksgiving a few years after. So Christmastime for me is about what I've lost, rather than what I have to be thankful for. Then there's crazy sis who comes and makes my life an absolute living hell for the holidays every year. No joke. And this year she's staying with ME, so...

What I miss most is that there are no surprises left. My mom is too old to buy or send gifts, so I do that for her, including buying and wrapping my own present so she can still feel like she is participating. I have no kids to live vicariously through, and except for a few Christmas specials (which I get to watch alone), and the dinner which I had to fight to get to prepare and host, there is not much joy in the holiday traditions for me. This is one reason I like to donate blood and clean out my closets for Goodwill during December, so I can feel a part of something that helps somebody else in some small way.

I like the music and the warmth I see. Even though I don't get to share in it. Not everyone lives in a Christmas card, you know. ;-)
[info]jillybiehn wrote:
Dec. 2nd, 2005 08:49 pm (UTC)
(((Ses))) I do realize that. But by doing those things-the dinner, your own present-you ARE sharing in the warmth. And do know that our hussy hearts are always with you. :)
[info]discodiva76 wrote:
Dec. 2nd, 2005 08:55 pm (UTC)
(((((Ses)))))).....I will be raising a glass and toasting all my wonderful on line friends as I do my dinner.....and I know I'll be knocking around on here, msn, yahoo and the forum sometime during the day!....

Deeds xx
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